This morning we begin our
journey toward Christmas. Most years we
would be looking at an Old Testament prophecy like the one read earlier in our
worship service. (Jeremiah 23:5-6). But
this year I want to set a different tone for our Advent passage to the
Christmas manger. I want to offer an
invitation to a different way of living that will shape our Christmas
celebrations and grow our walk with God. This morning I invite you
individually, and as a church family, to embrace a life of generosity. It is a way of life on display in the
Christmas story and lived out in front of us by people we love and cherish.
Not long ago I attended the
memorial service for Jim Denton’s mom, Rachel.
I listened to person after person describe the impact her life of
generosity had on them and on seemingly countless others. I asked Jim to share how her story inspired
him to become the person he is through Christ.
THE
EXAMPLE THAT KEEPS ON GIVING – by Jim Denton - I was delighted to finally get that package
had finally come in the mail. Income taxes
are due on April 15 and it’s a busy time of year at my CPA firm. Since my father passed away more than 15
years before, each year I have handled my mom’s federal and state filings. I rapidly shuffle through her envelope seeing
familiar with her accounts, properties and payments; but I notice substantial
and consistent gifts to her church and a long list of gifts to missions, faith-based
organizations, TV preachers as well as a few local charities. Seeing the TV preachers, my face flushed, I
lurched for my cell phone to call my brother who lives in the same town to
complain that she was being frivolous and he needed to control her payments. You
see she had just moved to a nursing facility and being a true accountant, I was
considering how long I projected that she would live, the potential for
expensive care that she would need, and how the stock market had dropped and with
a fixed income she keeps on giving these large amounts! Especially those to her TV preachers!
But
something stopped me from hitting the speed dial. I looked back at the previous years’ tax returns
and saw that she had given similar amounts to her church and to missions. She gave gifts to the organizations and the
TV guys as well. This was her pattern. This was her belief and commitment. Most importantly, it was her life! Her
contributions list told me what was important to her. I put the phone down, smiled to myself as I was
beginning to understand her beliefs, her commitment and unwavering devotion to
God’s work in the world today. As usual, my reflex was more than a few degrees
off.
My
Mom had a disease. Specifically, she had
what I term as the “generosity gene.” She
wasn’t exactly born with it. She
developed it through circumstances along with some great examples, a few
learned behaviors and an open heart. Countless
times she would see someone truly in need and she would make something happen. I think it came from the fact that she grew
up in a meager setting herself and a handful of kind people constantly reached
out to her. Later on when she had some means, her overriding desire was to keep
giving back.
She
also understood the commitments she had made and was true to them. More than anything she loved the Lord and was
highly devoted to her local church. She
showed that through her giving of money and her time. Best of all she and my dad instilled in me
the importance of consistent generous giving.
We lost her in October of this year but I believe that her legacy lives
on.
At
First Baptist Church we have some amazing examples just like her. I see these legacies from the choir on Sunday,
teaching our Bible Study and in the kitchen on Wednesday evening. They give faithfully because of their love,
their beliefs, commitments and their broken hearts for a broken world. They have the generosity gene. I cherish each
of them. I know that their gifts to the
Lord are their life!
My
belief is that the generosity gene can be passed along to the next generation
and the next and the next. But the key
is that it must be consistently demonstrated, taught and exercised or it just
lays dormant and stops. If we want our
next generation to be selfish, that example is prevalent in our popular culture
and we just let the world do the teaching for us. If we want the next generation to be generous
then we must show them the way by being generous ourselves and talking about
our love for God and our mission here on earth.
It’s time to take them by the hand and show them how generosity fits into
everything we do. You never know who you
might inspire!
Thank you, Jim. Your mom’s story – and the story of others
like her – calls us toward a generous life. I believe that this way of
generosity is at the very heart of the Christmas story. The gift of the Christchild is the ultimate
act of God’s generous nature.
We hear it in Paul’s instructions
to Titus, the 3rd Chapter, Verses 4 through 7: 4 But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared,
5 he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but
because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by
the Holy Spirit, 6 whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus
Christ our Savior, 7 so that, having been justified by his grace, we
might become heirs having the hope of eternal life.
When you look at the range
of the way dictionaries try to describe “generosity” we discover that it is an
open-handed, selfless, ready, abundant, substantial way of giving. I think it
takes the full breadth of this kind of definition to begin to wrap our arms
around the depths of God’s love and generosity reflected in the birth of the
Christ child. The very act of God’s
incarnation – of God coming in flesh through Jesus – and God’s gift of
salvation through Christ is God’s generosity on display. God’s redemptive act of grace shown in the
birth, crucifixion, and the resurrection of Jesus that we could be forgiven and
become heirs of eternal life is the ultimate open-handed, selfless, abundant,
and substantial act of giving. It is a
Christmas gift of scandalous proportion. Generosity is a manifestation of the
very nature of God. Simply said,
generosity is at the heart of God, and as His children we are to mirror this
same kind of selfless generosity.
There is a great Old
Testament passage that describes the kind of life of generosity that can grow
our walk with God. It is text we looked at once before but I think speaks
uniquely to this moment as we begin our Advent journey and as we face God’s
bold future as a congregation. Look with
me at I Chronicles 29: 14-18. It
reads; 14 “But who am I, and who are my people, that we should be
able to give as generously as this? Everything comes from you, and we have given
you only what comes from your hand. 15 We are foreigners and
strangers in your sight, as were all our ancestors. Our days on earth are like
a shadow, without hope. 16 LORD our God, all this abundance that we
have provided for building you a temple for your Holy Name comes from your
hand, and all of it belongs to you. 17 I know, my God, that you test
the heart and are pleased with integrity. All these things I have given
willingly and with honest intent. And now I have seen with joy how willingly
your people who are here have given to you. 18 LORD, the God of our
fathers Abraham, Isaac and Israel, keep these desires and thoughts in the
hearts of your people forever, and keep their hearts loyal to you.
This passage emerges from
Solomon’s dedicatory prayer for the grand temple in Jerusalem. At the time of its construction, Solomon’s
Temple would have been one of the most beautiful and remarkable buildings in
the world. The construction of the grand temple, that was to serve as God’s
earthly home, had been his father’s, David, dream. But David’s choice to claim the wife of a
married man and then arrange for the death of the man, one of his loyal
soldiers, so he could then make Bathsheba one of his wives, was a stain on
David’s legacy and the cause for God to deny David’s dream and allow his son to
build the temple. So with this story, at once very personal and profoundly
religious, in the background, Solomon comes to dedicate this remarkable
structure. Instead of focusing on his own story or seizing the moment for his
own glory, he offers a prayer that celebrates a generosity flowing from
complete dependence on God. The
abundance of their gifts for the temple begins with God’s generous gifts to
them. Our
culture of self sufficiency stands in sharp contrast to a theology that begins
with the belief that everything belongs to God and all we have comes from God. Solomon
had no doubt. He understood that God has made the means for him and his people
to be the people of God. We see this even more profoundly because we are a
people made the children of God through God’s great act of love and grace
through Jesus Christ. We are called to a
generous life because of God’s generosity in our lives.
It is important
to hear that a generous life is an expression and reflection of the whole of
who we are. It is not choosing a category of our lives where we give of
ourselves. Our stewardship is a life stewardship. It means giving of our time,
returning to God a portion of the time he has given us. It means giving of our
talents. God has uniquely gifted and equipped you for the work of the Kingdom.
The kind of giving I am talking about is not just about generous gifts of
money, because while money is important it is about more than money. Money alone is not enough. The kind of giving
I am talking about is not just about the generous giving of our time, because
while the giving of our time is important it is about more than the giving of
our time. Giving time alone is not enough.
Living a generous life means giving of the whole of us - an
open-handed, selfless, ready, abundant, substantial way of giving of ourselves
for others and for the Kingdom of God. At some level we know that this is the kind of
way of life God desires of us, but it is hard to image what that might actually
look like in our lives.
Early in
my ministry I had a friend that loved to work with horses. One afternoon I watched
him working a young horse and it blinders like these on. I could not understand why he was using them
and he explained that sometimes a young horse can be easily distracted by what
other horses, or even people, are doing.
The blinders, he explained, was to help limit the horse’s vision to only
what was directly ahead of him. I
believe the greatest single obstacle for us to live a generous life is that we
are harnessed with spiritual blinders. We are so defined by what we have
witnessed before, and so laser beam focused on the future we think we see in
front of us, that we simply do not see all that God is doing in our lives and
in the world. We are so focused on the
demands of the day, the tugs of the monthly bills, our already stretched
schedules, and our theology of limited resources, we cannot see anything beyond
what is in front of us. As a congregation,
we can be so wounded by the failures and frustrations of another season, so
shaped by the long season of decline, so anxious about the survival of the
church, so consumed by a theology of limitation and limited resources, that we
cannot see beyond what is in front of us.
By allowing our vision to limited by spiritual blinders we miss seeing
God at work in our lives and in the world around us. By allowing our vision to be limited by
spiritual blinders we remove God from the throne in our lives. By allowing our vision to be limited to be
limited by spiritual blinders we cheat ourselves from experiencing the bounty
of God’s love, grace, and generosity.
It is time to let the failures and the frustrations of yesterday go. We have to look up. We have to throw off our
blinders and intentionally look to see where God is at work in our lives, in
the life of our congregation, and in the world around us. When we begin to see the wonder of God’s
works and a glimpse into God’s bold future for us, our walk with God will be
changed. We will begin to understand
that it really all does belong to God and that God is incredibly generous in
our lives. I know that there are times
you must hear me like a used car salesman as I describe where I see God at work
in our midst. So, decide to open your
eyes and your heart wide and see for yourselves. Eagerly seek the signs of
God’s generosity in your life and the life of our church family so that your
heart and faith will be strengthened.
Seek the signs of God’s generosity so that you might find the courage
you need quit holding on in fear and release yourself to a generous way of life
that reflect the heart and the way of God. It will change how you give of
yourself and the resources that God has given you.
May our prayer – our very
life song echo the words of Solomon; “But
who am I, and who are my people, that we should be able to give as generously
as this? Everything comes from you, and
we have given you only what comes from your hand….I know, my God, that you test
the heart and are pleased with integrity. All these things I have given
willingly and with honest intent. And now I have seen with joy how willingly
your people who are here have given to you.



